his past. my present.
Posted on January 30th, 2008 by admin
feelings about his past relationships? how to get past it? My partner (23 years old) and I (24) have been together 2 months. He told me in the beginning of the relationship that he has been with 15+ women (5 short term relationships and the rest were all strictly sex). I had told him it didn't bother me when we first met, but now it does, and I don't know why and if it should be bothering me at all. Maybe it's because I have only been with 3 men my whole life and I kind of feel like I have to be at his level for some reason. I've told him this and he said he doesn't want to be with someone who has had many sexual partners.
Could it be some type of jealousy? Jealous that he has been with that amount and I haven't had that experience?
Or maybe I'm just jealous because he is a guy and as a guy he can have that amount of sexual partners without the feelings that I get when I have sex with someone?
He tells me the past was the past for him and he doesn't want to bring it up in our relationship or wants to know who I've been with. How do I stop myself from imagining him being with all of those women and being curious about his past relationships? I really can't see him with any other person. just me, right now.
should I be going to therapy about this? does this mean i'm in love with him? ahhhh. questions I can't answer myself.
Does anyone have any insight on this or have felt this way before?
Could it be some type of jealousy? Jealous that he has been with that amount and I haven't had that experience?
Or maybe I'm just jealous because he is a guy and as a guy he can have that amount of sexual partners without the feelings that I get when I have sex with someone?
He tells me the past was the past for him and he doesn't want to bring it up in our relationship or wants to know who I've been with. How do I stop myself from imagining him being with all of those women and being curious about his past relationships? I really can't see him with any other person. just me, right now.
should I be going to therapy about this? does this mean i'm in love with him? ahhhh. questions I can't answer myself.
Does anyone have any insight on this or have felt this way before?

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